A young man sent this as a text-message to me (I won't say why... because the story is too long and boring) BUT i can tell you girls that he is a good lookin' Jewish guy without many problems. He was a jock type character in school and he don't got cooties. He had this to say:

"Not skinny. Not fat.. But healthy girls.. Me personally, i love voluptuous girls. Skinny girls suck! Ps. most guys i know prefer some meat on a lady... So you are wrong biatch (referring to me writing a joke of a message claiming to want to be skinny.. me? as if) . Although I hope-think you were being facetious. Curvy is good.. Chubby is not... Skinny like a rake is not."

And i think that's great. Because it's just honest - okay so guys don't like chubby girls - WE KNOW. don't pretend we don't - that's the cause of the insecurity so as long as we acknowledge that chubby is not how we want to be, then great. SO THEN, you got it plain and simple: just be curvy - eat want you want but be healthy. Don't go anorexic - it's not cool.

I think the motto is: Get some more meat, in more ways than one.